Do people of NYC drive around Central Park all the time? Is there any subway tunnel to cross the park quickly? Is it annoying for people and does it cause traffic?

When you say “drive around Central Park” what exactly do you mean? Central Park is a large, walled rectangle in the middle of the island if Manhattan. If you mean, do people drive around the perimeter the answer is yes. People can drive north and south along Central Park West, south on Fifth Avenue and east and west along both 59th and 110th streets, which are the park perimeters. If you mean do people drive around the park within the walls, the answer is not any more. The park was planned in the time of horse drawn carriages and it was originally laid out with several carriage drives meant for pleasure driving of horse drawn carriages. The main drive circled the entire park but is usually known by the side of the park a section happens to be on, hence the East and West Carriage Drive, but is in reality one continuous ribbon of roadway. There is also a bridal path that encircles much of the park that was intended for pleasure riding. As the automobile replaced the horse the drives were used by cars. Initially, traffic was very light. I remember that through most of my childhood and adolescence it was easy to cross the drives without worrying about traffic because there was so little of it. I also remember the bridal path as very active with a steady stream of riders. The southern portion of the park also featured the tourist favored horse drawn carriages.

As time passed, however, traffic increased and increased, until traffic lights became necessary at all the drive crossings. The drive was always packed with cars of all sizes. Then people began to use the drives for biking, jogging, etc. and the hose drawn carriages increased in number as tourism increased. The city tried various plans to control the flow, designating lanes for different activities. But at rush hours the separation tended to break down. From the 1980s access was restricted in some parts of the park on certain days of the week. Then the entire park was closed to traffic from Friday nights till Monday mornings. Then, it was weekends and every evening after 7 PM. Finally, in 2018 the park was closed permanently to motor vehicles.

However, none of this means that one cannot drive through the park from one side to the other. Olmstead and Vaux, who planned the park, laid out several crossing points. They were located at approximately 66th/67th, 72nd, 79th/81st, 86th, 96th/97th and 106th streets. All, except the two at 72nd and 106th streets were laid out so as to cross through roadways sunken below the ground level of the park and have entrances and exits that are on slightly different places on the opposite sides of the park. The two ground level crossings have been closed to traffic for years, but the others function every day. Unfortunately, because they are sunken they occasionally flood in very heavy rain, but they do work. The busiest of them is undoubtedly the one at 66th/67th streets, which carries not only the traffic from its immediate hinterlands (one of which includes Lincoln Center) but also much of the traffic that might once have used the 72nd Street crossing. For example, the M72 crosstown bus cannot go straight across 72nd street. It must detour south at both Fifth Avenue and and at Central Park West in order to use the 66th/67th street crossing. The same tunnel also serves the M66 bus, which goes straight back and forth. There is no subway that crosses the park. If you are on either side of the park and wish to get to a location on the other side of it entirely by subway, the only way is to take a train to one of the locations where trains from both sides of Manhattan meet in the same station. This is usually in midtown. Popular locations are Grand Central at 42nd street and Times Square also at 42nd Street. They don’t meet in the same station but are connected by the Shuttle which runs only between them or by the #7 Flushing line train, which has a stop at both locations. Another popular location is Rockefeller Center where trains from the IND Sixth Avenue line and some of the BMT line train lines meet. At the meeting point you have to go to the train running on the opposite side of the park and take it in the opposite direction to the train you left in order to reach the place you want to go. When I used to live in Washington Heights on the west side of northern Manhattan while attending graduate school on the Upper East Side Inalways tookma local bus that provided door to door service in about one hour. Classmates couldn’t understand why I preferred that to the subway. But, to take the subway would have meant a five minute walk to the nearest subway, then a five to ten minute wait for the train, then a 20 minute ride to either side of the 42nd Street corridor, then a five minute walk to the shuttle train or #7 train, then a five minute walk from the shuttle to the uptown train. Then there would have been another five to ten minute wait for the train and another 20 minute ride to my stop and a further five minute walk to my destination. All of which add up to an hour or more. In this case the train was the slowest way to get there.

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Currently, the only way to “drive around the park” while remaining within it is to hire either a horse drawn carriage or a pedicab. Or you can cycle or jog or just walk on what once was the grand carriage drive, but please be considerate of others. Stick to the lane designated for your activity, keep to the proposed direction and above all, obey the traffic lights. They still exist because people still need to cross the drive and that includes small children, people with baby carriages, frail older people with canes and walkers and anyone who may have a problem with moving fast enough to get out of your way.

Also, over time, the bridal path was used less and less frequently as the livery stables that surrounded it were closed down. The path wasn’t maintained well during the city’s financial crisis of the late 1970s and early 1980s and runners began to use it and the nearby reservoir pathway for their work outs. Horses were seen less often in the park. The last stable, Claremont Riding Academy, where I took lessons once upon a time, closed in 2007.